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But you know, you had to know these people and you really understood why parents stopped coming to visit them. The were so burned out from caring for thier mentally ill child for 50 or more years.
Don't blame the parents for giving up..They wanted to live the rest of their lives without the trauma of being beaten by their son or daughter, or have checks and money stolen from them, Some even had to move into elderly housing because because they lost their home to fire or going bankrupt. (sp) because of their child.
Mentally ill people are some of the most selfish people in the world. it is me, myself and I - with no thought of what you are doing to another person..But These people are sick and when you understand what their illness is, then we can try to go ahead and bring some kind of peace to their shreiking voices. and minds .I can tell you about what Danvers State use to be like in the 30-40-50's..THis was when DSH was a self-governing little town of its own. The patients, staff, doctors, nurses, all worked together to make the community work...I know a lot about these times because my Uncle was a patient there during these times...and often at night when all the patients were asleep our nurse would come down and tell what it was like years ago - it was not a pretty place.
One movie you might want to find " The snake Pit" made in 1946. It was made on the grounds of DSH, but most of it was made in Marblehead...tthis is what an insane assylum was like ,My book is going to make" One flew over the cucoos's nest" and Girl interrupted look like a nursery school tale...
The person that made this website is an artist indeed.
BUt perhaps yo can get a picture of the fields and lower road and get a thread going on "Hospital life in he early days" so I don't take all the space here....Sorry I took so long to get back - but these pictures bring back memories for more stories...Even a nice shot of the old castle because this is where I'm going to take you. when it was a thriving self-sustained working community..
I am sure it was used in 1995 or 94
I knew someone who stated there.
It is a site. Never could put words to the
feeling I had when I entered the grounds of the old hospital.
Security took myself and another female staff member for a tour of the Kirkbride one evening on our dinner break.
Everything was fine til we entered the kitchen area , all of a sudden there was a blood curdling scream and the 2 security office ran from the building BEFORE my colleague and I got out.
I have never forgotten that sound. Like Mary I have many stories from my time there. I saw some terrible things but I also remember all the good we did.
The baths, the wrapping in sheets...we think those are horrible methods today, but at the time when they were in widespread use, they were considered state-of-the-art therapies. Of course, as with anything, there were some staff who used them coercively, as a threat or punishment. As wrong as that was, in most cases it was not because the staff were sadistic. They were overworked, underpaid, inadequately trained, and inadequately supervised.
Involuntary treatment in a locked facility is sometimes required for the safety of the patient and the community. Even in community settings, I have had jobs where I went to work every day knowing that I would be met with what, in any other setting, would be considered a criminal assault. The only question was the form of the assault. It might be having my hair pulled, getting a bite that broke the skin, being kicked, hit, punched, head-butted, pinched, scratched, having my clothing torn, having the interior of my car damaged in the course of transporting a patient, etc. Other patients have assaulted (even murdered) others in much more extreme ways, including arson. We cannot do away with institutions altogether. If we did, the only alternative for some patients would be jail. The symptoms are not the person's fault, but safety must be maintained while treatment alleviates the symptoms.
There are safeguards in place today to guard against "unfair" treatment. Individual program plans, behavior support plans, psychological services, human rights committees, mandatory review of all adverse incidents, oversight by advocates and guardians, required staff training in client rights, sensitivity, abuse and neglect all help to make programs more person-centered/client-focused.
As for leaving people as they are...if all you could do was yell/scream/cry, would that satisfy you??? Wouldn't you want help to teach you additional skills and to help you be more independent? Should we not help a child with autism learn to use a communication device, a picture exchange communication system, or some other means to better express his/her wants and needs? Should we really just say "that's the way he is, we don't want to change it"?
Or someone who has schizophrenia and walks around town all day talking to the voices in his/her head--should be not provide antipsychotic medications in an effort to help the person interact with others, maybe have a job or go to school? Should we really just decide that he should stay that way?
Most people do want treatment to improve their health. If a person has diabetes, does that mean that's how they are, and they should forgo treatment and stay that way? Even when a person doesn't want treatment, sometimes that refusal is a symptom of their illness. Often, people in a manic phase of bipolar disorder feel great--lots of energy, little need for sleep, exaggerated sense of their own abilities, etc. What they don't see is how they are alienating those closest to them by their extreme irritability and/or risky behaviors (spending too much money, driving recklessly, using street drugs, sexual promiscuity, etc.).
If we stipulate that institutions are undesirable, then we, as a society, have to be willing to provide and PAY for the costs of adequate community-based treatment.
Most patients with a mental illness or developmental disability, if they are sufficiently self-aware, do not want to be left as they are. They want to have their own homes, drive a car, manage their own money, have a job, get married, go out with friends...just like everybody else. Some of the most heart-wrenching words I have heard from clients have been from those with mental retardation who asked "Why am I like this? Why did I have to be born this way?"