Larry -- I am so sorry about your mother (and I'm sure many other people who aren't so suspicious of other people's motives are too) and also for anyone else who has gone through pain due to mental illness and its far-reaching effects -- ignore anyone else who says otherwise -- to argue with you over something like that is downright warped and pathetic and they may be in need of some psych help themselves. ;) Don't worry -- most people in the world are good and we DO care. Good luck to you.